That didn't seem to apply to Benny Mardones ("She's just 16 years old / Leave her alone, they say"), especially if you've seen the music video. Apparently the record company wanted someone younger to play his role in the video, but Benny insisted on doing it himself.1973: Bobby Goldsboro-Summer (The First Time). A seventeen year old losing their virginity to a 31-year old. If the genders had been swapped, this would have been statutory rape. Bobby was saved by a double standard.