Pratte4Life said:
And the people here say "think of a Plan B for your career."
In an area where the population often seems to be filled with not optimists, but COCKEYED optimists, this is about as negative as you can get.
I guess I'm the guy who introduced "Plan B" to this conversation, so let me "'splain".
I have had to come up with Plan B at least five times in my life.
You're going for a great ride in a job you love, and they walk in some afternoon, send everybody home, and slam the door shut and turn everything over to the bankruptcy court. Been on that ride twice.
You're going for a great ride in a job that is great and they walk in some afternoon, invite you into the office and explain times are a bit tough and so they don't end up dealing with bankruptcy, they're going to throw a few people overboard, now, today. Tag: You're it. Been on that ride twice.
You come to the conclusion you are trying to build a business that your wife is not fond of. The marriage may not work if you stay with the business. I decided the wife was more important (and more fun) than the business.
Optimism flowed a bit more lavishly in my decision-making back when I could throw my stuff in the back of a car and then a bit later hitch a 4x8 U-haul trailer on the back of the car and relocate for the next opportunity. When it got to the point that everything I owned would not fit in the biggest truck U-Haul had to offer.... I don't know that optimism took a kick in the teeth, but something that looked a little big like pessimism was seen on the premises.
I got out of the broadcasting business a few years back. Said I would consider coming back when the kids were grown and out of the house. In the last few years I have reconnected with some of the people I worked with many years ago. I have been crawling through radio stations doing due-diligence with the idea of making a purchase offer. Stations that at one time I could have worked for with an optimistic attitude and great hopes for the future today, in some cases, look (and smell?) like an overgrown, unkempt two-holer outhouse. I look at some of those towns and some of those stations and ask what would it have done to me, my wife, my family had I refused to consider Plan B.
I have also visited some stations, places I couldn't dream of buying today because I don't have the capital, and I have to fantasize, what if, what if I had made ONE MORE MOVE and ended up there, and eventually ended up as the owner, or at least the manager.
Life is one hell of a gamble. I stand by my recommendation: Plan B can be a handy thing to have in your shirt pocket.