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Help me to understand the philosophy that guides you in our conversations in the forums.
Is there a difference between genuine civility and false civility?
Is civility an 'evil view' in your version of a well functioning world?
Isn't civility a little bit like pregnancy.... "Either you is or you ain't!" ? It doesn't matter if you became pregnant via what civilization considers a legitimate set of circumstances, or if you became pregnant via less than socially acceptable arrangements. Pregnant is pregnant.
Now, apply that to civility. I don't care if your broadcast operation (radio or TV) does 'civility' because of what civilization considers a legitimate set of rationale, or your operation dispenses a diet of 'civility' because of a gun being held to your head.... You have, you ARE civility.... or you are uncivil.
I can see the scene now over at the household of the "Leave it to Beaver" family setting. "Honey, would you turn off the TV. That program is broadcasting FALSE civility and I am afraid it is going to warp the children for life."
When someone's idea of being "civil" ends up sounding like an 18th century fop, it's probably not genuine. Anyone who has been alive more than a few decades can usually tell if someone is probably being sincere or not. It's one of those life skills we pick up with experience, like noticing little cues in body language that reveal when someone is lying. It's not a perfect science, it's an art. But those who understand it don't need to have it explained, and those who need to have it explained will never understand it.