That's a trade-off. You can't please everyone, so you aim for the biggest group. That's what these stations do. Losing you and the ten other people like you is a calculated risk.
As near as I can tell, we've been having this discussion with Oldies76 for five years now (seriously---2011). Here's the takeaway from that half-decade:
He's stuck on the idea that everyone has higher tolerance levels of songs they don't strongly like or outright love than they actually do. He believes that if most people don't actively dislike or hate a song, they'll stay tuned.
He believes that hitting a given number on a Billboard chart 40 or more years ago means the song is a hit for all time and that should guarantee airplay today (though, apparently, he'll make an exception for "Ring My Bell").
He believes that if you'd only just expose music and programming concepts from before the time of today's target listener, they'd love it.
And he believes that KRTH is consistently top five in the ratings because listeners have no choice, and that if you put KFXM up on top of Mt. Wilson with a 100,000 watt signal, they'd crush KRTH.
What's interesting in all this is that we all have something in common: We're way more interested in music than the typical listener. I could name every song on that week's KHJ Boss Thirty when I was in 9th grade. I'm betting David could do the same for the local Top 40 where he grew up and so could Oldies76. And maybe-----MAYBE---two or three other people in the whole school could do the same.
The other 997 (in the case of my school)? Five. Seven? Maybe ten, tops. They liked
some songs that were popular at the time (most likely the seven that really were selling). Music was not their life in high school. And after high school, most of the non-music freaks I knew got really serious and really grown up really fast. They didn't have time to spend three hours with Casey Kasem writing down the top 30 backwards every week.
In other words, they never cared about---and don't remember---two-thirds of the songs I do.
If the core of KRTH is 35-54, that makes the center 45. So:
Born in 1971.
Graduated high school 1989.
Graduated college 1993.
A high statistical probability that he or she is:
Married.
Has at least one child in late high school or early college and one or more younger than that.
Works full time.
And we know that this person listens to Classic Hits not as a steady diet, but as part of a group of stations (between six and nine) that they share their listening time with.
Now...the trick to getting a strong rating here is to get as many of those people as possible who share a core of songs that they all agree on---the least likely to make them push the button sooner than they would anyway----to listen.
If it works, the ratings are good. KRTH is #3 right now. Consistently Top 5 overall. Performing well enough in the demo to make the cut for most ad agency buys. Not making the cut makes a difference of millions of dollars in billing per year.
Again, we have a lot in common. I believed a lot of the things Oldies76 believed when I was starting out as a young programmer. I learned through trial and error how people actually use the medium. As I've said before...what we really need is a radio programming simulator, so people can crash a few radio stations without costing stockholders money and people their jobs.