IMHO a professional grade receiver AND an external antenna mounted outside on a pole and dialed in towards the transmitter site is your best bet, you are on the edge of the 50 Dbu predicted contour.
I take it your goal is to listen OTA and respond over an internet connection.
A Barix box is pretty damned affordable if you ask me. But you need to use a really low bit rate and almost no buffering to be in real time....
Have you considered that what you hear over the air is delayed by processing, moving around the air chain, etc etc etc.
Believe it or not, when I wanted good reception, I used a good car radio and antenna... granted it was a long time ago with the antenna mounted on a aluminum chassis box and the radio powered by a good 12v power supply that was not noisy.
Can you get the station at the new house on your car radio?
How to get the best fm reception from home equipment. Hardware and strategy tips from NCPR station engineer Radio Bob Sauter
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