I think there is a big divide between radio as a hobby, and radio as a business. On a personal note, I used to be under the impression that the goal of a radio station was to attract listeners both near and far. If you would have tried to explain to me seven years ago that advertisers don't care about listeners who are out of market, I probably wouldn't have believed you, because that philosophy somehow seems counterintuitive to the goal of broadcasting. What really opened my eyes was having direct conversations with real salespeople who actually have to sell advertising. Real people who do the job aren't going to put a lot of effort into driving to Forks, Chehalis, or Concrete to try and sell advertising. Listeners in those locations are merely a bonus.We share all the time, Ford. As you've seen, many of the Hobbyists, just don't want to believe it.
Just as with politics anymore, sometimes the facts and actual data don't spark the excitement and strong opinions that people crave.
The hobby side of radio (dxing, reception) certainly has a place. I still find a lot of excitment in seeing what I can pick up on the radio in unique locations.