Gawd, I'm so sick of the cliche', overused-term 'woke'. Right up there with calling people 'snowflakes'.
As mentioned, I suspect who used to be okay with the term Latino and Latina, have discovered their own title that doesn't involve gender. Honestly, I could care less if they wanted me to call them 'Boaty MacBoatster' and Ms. Potato Head. Everyone has their thing, including you.
Actually, the English generalization term preferred in the US (but definitely not outside the US) is "Hispanic". For first generation residents, the actual heritage identifier such as "Boricua" or "Puerto Rican" or "Chapín" or "Catracho" or "Mexican" or "Chilango" or whatever is the choice.
In certain areas, terms for later-generation Latinos may be Chicanos, Pochos, Tejanos, Newyoricans, Dominicanyork, etc.
As to gender, native Spanish speakers grew up using and today continue to use a language that is gender-based. There is no linguistic gender discrimination or segregation in the language.
Did it occur that they may say that in front of you because you've poo-pooed the term in prior conversations? Sometimes it's better to let 'Abuelo' have his rants.
I don't object to the term, and since it is a very hard pronunciation in Spanish, I don't use it. In general, among Spanish speakers we don't make references to the broader Hispanic/Latino/Latinx but will often make references to national origin or heritage, as that determines tastes and interests.
You mean like; 'The Borg'?
No, like "peer group fear".
Anecdotal data point. It may seem that way in your circle, just like people on this radio discussion board believes their programming philosophies are the way.
No, proven by the stratified version of the Gallup survey I mentioned.
No, based on both the public release data as well as internal research by media companies that live by serving the Hispanic consumer.
LGTBQ people don't come out as often or as easily outside of the U.S either. Especially true if you don't want the crap beaten out of you, or worse.
That is an ancient stereotype. Really ancient.
And, gee, the absolute and total idol of Mexico was... and still is... Juan Gabriel. In Puerto Rico and much of the US, for the last 50 years, it was Walter Mercado.
And then there is ultramegasuperstar Ricky Martin. Or the director Pedro Almodóvar. And many more whose names you would not know.
You likely have not lived for long periods outside the US in Latin America or worked in the media there.
Yep, and that's what I do.
As all of us should. However, the dimensions of the term's usage, and the survey showed, are very, very limited. I'm not arguing the validity of the term... just the extent of its actual use.
We just don't find a significant number of Spanish speaking Hispanics asking "what's your pronoun?"