cklw800 said:BryanDurio. That was 1976 for "I Wish" by Stevie Wonder from "Songs In The Key of Life". He says when HE was a nappy-headed boy. He didn't point out a group of innocent female teens who play basketball. I can bring up some song analogies, too, by many rock groups using the "n" word. Stevie Wonder calling HIMSELF a nappy-headed boy 31 years ago...wow Bryan.
Very good. You remember the song, too. It's also one of my favorite Steve Wonder tunes.
My point is that if, according to chrisalcorn, "'nappy' means the derogatory reference to a 'black' hair type," then Stevie Wonder must be self-loathing because he wrote that word in a song lyric. I don't care if it was 31 years ago. If it is wrong to use now, it was wrong to use it then, no matter the source. So now you're telling me that "nappy" is only derogatory if a non-black utters it? I fail to understand your logic here. You cannot have it both ways. Derogatory is derogatory. Either it is or it isn't.
cklw800, I'm not justifying anyone's use of the "n" word (to be Politically Correct) in any way, so don't even go there.
You remind me of a girl I dated in the early '80s. It was OK for her to put down members of her family, but if anyone else did, they'd have hell to pay for it.
Double standards. Hypocrisy. Very amusing.