The woman I hired as Karin Begin in 1988 or 1989 in Nova Scotia has died. The woman who morphed into Darian O’Toole was responsible for my move to the US in 1994, a move which changed my life. As a disc jockey, she liked to cross the line and did so quite often, much to the consternation of my station manager. I loved what she did, told her so, and encouraged her to move to the US where a talent like hers could flower. It did, and she landed a morning gig in San Francisco. That’s when she called me and asked if I’d like to be her partner on K-BIG. To make a long story short, we had many adventures. I met my future wife, Laurie, at a James Taylor promotion. We moved the show to New York where Darian crashed and burned. I stayed in New York, and our parting was not amicable. We lost touch, although I would read about her escapades in various trade publications. This morning, I got an email from Mark Neumann who started as an intern on our show at Q 104.3 in New York and ended up as her on air partner in San Francisco. He asked if I had heard the news and was it another Darian prank for April Fool’s Day. Then I saw it on other online sites, so I called her father who confirmed that she had died of respiratory failure while in an Oakland hospital late Monday after she broke her leg about a week ago. I’m shocked and saddened by her death, but not surprised. She had many demons that tortured her. She was only 40. I owe her a huge debt of gratitude and I’ll always remember the good times.
Shawn Kelly