At Illusions on "Howdown Night" (which sometimes goes into "Howdown Morning") it's pretty much the members and guests doing the dozens on themselves, and kvetching on the sadsackness of their lives, and on those nights the dance floor is quite quiet.
It's not really a competition, it's more like therapy. Instead of a comped gift for The Winner at the end of the evening, everyone leaves with a stronger, though still quite subtle, grasp on the realization that a case of bottled water doesn't always mend a broke heart.