lash said:
Pardon me, but I am using my real last name.
Best to you in the future, and with your career. I apologize for upsetting you.
You didn't upset me. You just made a lot of implications that aren't supported at all.
I have absolutely no recollection of any altercation with you that would have led to the conclusions you draw on this board tonight.
You implied that after we met, it was then I was no longer with CHRSN. That is a bold correlation that simply has no correlation whatsoever. Trust me, none.
You also suggested that CHRSN needed to apologize to you on my behalf. Again...I am capable of making any apologies necessary.
You then proceeded to say you would be discussing this dialogue with another party...not sure why that information was necessary.
Now we can certainly disagree in our thoughts on EMF, CHRSN, and CC among others...and that happens in broadcasting all the time.
But your remarks against my character were personal. And while I readily admit I am bold and direct...I make no apologies for misunderstandings about my personality. We all have different personalities...different things that drive us. Some personalities rush to conflict, others shy away from it. Some personalities are bold and outspoken and others are more diplomatic. Some personalities are simply never going to be compatible...others are a chemistry beyond belief.
But I assure you...that I am a woman of God. And thus, I am fully aware that in all things I am to be excellent. And I know that while some may prefer I was less direct and a little more gentle...others are inspired by the passion to say what I think when I think it. I tame my tongue on many occassions...as evidenced tonight. And I make amends and live at peace in all ways I can.
The mark of a professional is one who can lay aside personal inclinations in order to dialogue and achieve mutual benefit. That I am willing to do.
I have absolutely nothing to say negative about you or your approach to programming, but that it is a different approach. My approach to programming may not be yours. And that is fine. I am more than comfortable with my approach, as I have learned from some of the best, and continue to.
I appreciate your sentiments and am excited about my future in this industry. I've been very successful in this market and I credit that success with knowledge of the target, the format, the team I am a part of, and the passion I have for radio. I credit South Central for taking advantage of my flexibility and positioning me on their station in a prime day part. I feel confident I have proven myself capable of achieving the goals set out for me. And so, yes, I make many statements that are directly on par with my ratings success. And the encouragement I have received not only from my colleagues and peers, but my mentors and industry leaders as well.
But I do feel you implications about my character and this industry on this board tonight were a stretch...a reach...and in some cases, a leap that no olympic athlete would attempt.
While you have a case for your passion to do local radio...we can discuss consolidation without making the other parties position so personal.
Now, I am more than willing to address your grievance privately. I am available at anytime to do that. And I suggest it be done...because we are bound to interact on this board again...and if we, as two believers in Christ, cannot at least come to a decision to be civil and professional in that interaction...then the discussions will remain defeated.
You obviously may disagree and choose not to. But to suggest I am unwilling and to continue to make these implications is not beneficial...and as of this post...unwarranted.
Thanks.
Elizabeth