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I went to the dentist

vchimpanzee said:
If you were to read other posts about how AC music is evolving, maybe you'd get it. Pink, Lady Gaga, Katy Perry, Bon Jovi, Prince--these are as offensive to me as rap music would be to you. My dentist sometimes plays country and the same applies to Jason Aldean, Big and Rich, Montgomery Gentry and Carrie Underwood. No, I will not enjoy the music. I don't think anyone who says that understands me at all.

Nobody is forcing you to enjoy the music. What makes you think businesses need to cater to YOUR needs? It's not all about YOU. People don't go to the dentist to listen to music. They go to the dentist to get their teeth cleaned. People don't go to the grocery store to listen to music. They go to the store where they feel they can buy the groceries they need.

vchimpanzee said:
But when you are talking about the stress of a dental appointment, you are talking about something else entirely. Most of you are demanding that I accept Sir Laurence Olivier as my dentist.

We are not demanding anything of you. All we're saying is that you are completely ridiculous if you think any business should cater to one person's opinion about what quality music is. Why can't you accept the fact that it's not about you?
 
new_friends_gr said:
vchimpanzee said:
If you were to read other posts about how AC music is evolving, maybe you'd get it. Pink, Lady Gaga, Katy Perry, Bon Jovi, Prince--these are as offensive to me as rap music would be to you. My dentist sometimes plays country and the same applies to Jason Aldean, Big and Rich, Montgomery Gentry and Carrie Underwood. No, I will not enjoy the music. I don't think anyone who says that understands me at all.

Nobody is forcing you to enjoy the music. What makes you think businesses need to cater to YOUR needs? It's not all about YOU. People don't go to the dentist to listen to music. They go to the dentist to get their teeth cleaned. People don't go to the grocery store to listen to music. They go to the store where they feel they can buy the groceries they need.
Right, and I can do that a lot better without music. So far, they haven't forced me to do that, but I think people who work there would be happier if I wasn't under stress.
new_friends_gr said:
vchimpanzee said:
But when you are talking about the stress of a dental appointment, you are talking about something else entirely. Most of you are demanding that I accept Sir Laurence Olivier as my dentist.

We are not demanding anything of you. All we're saying is that you are completely ridiculous if you think any business should cater to one person's opinion about what quality music is. Why can't you accept the fact that it's not about you?
We are talking about dealing with stress. For example, the hygienist knows the chair can only go back so far before I object. So you want be to feel like I'm about to throw up, too?
 
You don't get it, vchimpanzee. It's not about YOU and YOUR needs. It's about what's best for the majority of the patients/customers.
 
Speaking of the music being played in the dentist office, lets talk about the music that my senior prom from my class of 2010 chose. If I requested my senior prom to play a Chicago song or a Rod Stewart song, my friends would be like WTF!?!?!? Andrew!?!?!? Lol! :D
 
Again, this is not about my preference or what I like, but what increases my stress.

For example, yesterday I needed one particular item from a Dollar Store that was easy to find. The store normally has played the same radio station I heard at the dentist, so I can reasonably conclude this was the same station. I heard the words "teenage dream" in a song so annoying I wanted to get out of there as quickly as possible. Now this is not about what I want to hear in a store. This is about my being under stress at the dentist. Most of you see nothing whatsoever wrong with my being subjected for a long period, during an already stressful situation, to what put me under considerable stress for a short time.

I'm not going to listen to your opinions. My dentist (or rather, the hygienist and whoever cleaned that room) handled this the way they should have, though turning off the music was another option.
 
vchimpanzee said:
Again, this is not about my preference or what I like, but what increases my stress.

Now this is not about what I want to hear in a store. This is about my being under stress at the dentist. Most of you see nothing whatsoever wrong with my being subjected for a long period, during an already stressful situation, to what put me under considerable stress for a short time.

I'm not going to listen to your opinions. My dentist (or rather, the hygienist and whoever cleaned that room) handled this the way they should have, though turning off the music was another option.

Has it ever occurred to you that perhaps most of the other patients at the dentist might find a certain kind of music to be stress-relieving even if you don't feel the same way? Again ... you seem to be thinking it's about YOUR stress and YOUR needs ... not the stress and needs of the majority of the people.
 
new_friends_gr said:
vchimpanzee said:
Again, this is not about my preference or what I like, but what increases my stress.

Now this is not about what I want to hear in a store. This is about my being under stress at the dentist. Most of you see nothing whatsoever wrong with my being subjected for a long period, during an already stressful situation, to what put me under considerable stress for a short time.

I'm not going to listen to your opinions. My dentist (or rather, the hygienist and whoever cleaned that room) handled this the way they should have, though turning off the music was another option.

Has it ever occurred to you that perhaps most of the other patients at the dentist might find a certain kind of music to be stress-relieving even if you don't feel the same way? Again ... you seem to be thinking it's about YOUR stress and YOUR needs ... not the stress and needs of the majority of the people.
All right. That's a valid assumption. Still, they may not need this particular type of music as much as I need either relaxing music or no music.
 
Re: "It Ain't Over 'til It's Over" by Lenny Kravitz

vchimpanzee said:
I'll say this about Lenny Kravitz. There's a certain restaurant chain that shall remain nameless, but when I went there with some relatives back in the 90s, they switched from instrumental music to soft AC, and that bothered me. Eventually, there was enough noise from the other people that I couldn't hear the music. But some years later I went in that same restaurant in another city, and heard "Fly Away", and I stormed out. I do eat breakfast at another restaurant in the same chain during my week in the mountains and they seem to limit their music there to soft oldies, at least at breakfast time. And they know better than to do anything else.

Actually, now that Bruger King has pancakes (or did) it doesn't matter. But then Burger King has top 40 and hot AC which I have to put up with while waiting. There, the food I can take with me once I get it.

Ear plugs? Ear buds and an iPod?
 
In my dentist's office, they play a different format every day to keep the office staff happy. There's no way to make everyone happy, but one can try.

Remember, NO ONE wants their dentist or hygienist to turn into the Hulk when one has a drill or sharp tool in hand. I'll defer to whatever keeps THEIR stress level down, every time!
 
Re: "It Ain't Over 'til It's Over" by Lenny Kravitz

PirateJohnny said:
vchimpanzee said:
I'll say this about Lenny Kravitz. There's a certain restaurant chain that shall remain nameless, but when I went there with some relatives back in the 90s, they switched from instrumental music to soft AC, and that bothered me. Eventually, there was enough noise from the other people that I couldn't hear the music. But some years later I went in that same restaurant in another city, and heard "Fly Away", and I stormed out. I do eat breakfast at another restaurant in the same chain during my week in the mountains and they seem to limit their music there to soft oldies, at least at breakfast time. And they know better than to do anything else.

Actually, now that Bruger King has pancakes (or did) it doesn't matter. But then Burger King has top 40 and hot AC which I have to put up with while waiting. There, the food I can take with me once I get it.

Ear plugs? Ear buds and an iPod?
Enough with trying to make me spend money I don't have and go to the trouble of doing something that the dentist can easily do.
 
Greg Goodfellow said:
In my dentist's office, they play a different format every day to keep the office staff happy. There's no way to make everyone happy, but one can try.

Remember, NO ONE wants their dentist or hygienist to turn into the Hulk when one has a drill or sharp tool in hand. I'll defer to whatever keeps THEIR stress level down, every time!
It's a little different with my dentist. It has been my experience that they change every hour. And that know I need the classical music.
 
In my experiences in going to the dentist, there is never a radio on in the exam room. In the reception area, yeah. The dentist I go to usually plays country music. I hate country, but it doesn't mean I'm not going to go there. He happens to be a good dentist.
 
the golden boy said:
In my experiences in going to the dentist, there is never a radio on in the exam room. In the reception area, yeah. The dentist I go to usually plays country music. I hate country, but it doesn't mean I'm not going to go there. He happens to be a good dentist.
I like country, but not the way it is now. There was one country station I listened to back before Big and Rich and Montgomery Gentry were starting to wreck things, and if I could get that sound once again, it might work. I'm thinking AC as it sounded a few years ago might be okay but not ideal. I mentioned the barber shop a few years ago, and this same station that was playing when I went to the dentist sounded fine then. Not what I would consider ideal, but if I couldn't hear it half the time maybe.

There is a classic country station in my area but the equipment might mess up the signal. The pop station I like would have an even worse problem.
 
vchimpanzee said:
But the point is: this isn't about target audiences, or what people grew up with, or what makes money. This is about having something very unpleasant forced on me in a very stressful sitation that only makes it worse.

If I went to the dentist and they were playing the Carpenters or Barry Manilow, I'd say something very unpleasant was being forced on me, and I might be tempted to leave

Soft AC doesn't reduce my stress level - it just makes me want to vomit

How are they supposed to please everybody?
 
That's true, if one of my classmates in college finished a hard Calculus-based Physics test, didn't do well, got stressed out and felt depressed about it, just got back into their car to go home, and turned on the radio. If it were Carpenters, it would even make them feel more depressed. If it were Taio Cruz, it would make them feel better.
 
My dentist had the local AC on for decades. Around two years ago he switched to Sirius-XM AC. The last time I went a couple of months ago he switched to Sirius-XM 70s on 7 which I quite enjoyed. When I heard Ian Matthews Shake It..it was the most pleasure I have had at the dentist in my life!
 
Ever since I got my braces off, my parents doesn't take me to my dentist in Oklahoma City much anymore. But, I remember when I was in middle school and high school, I had my braces, so my parents took me to our dentist a lot.

I was already living in DFW at the time. My parents didn't change us to a different dentist because Dr. U was our greatest dentist and they think wouldn't be able to find another good dentist like that. That means my parents drive to Oklahoma City from Dallas for check-ups along with visits to my extended families that still lives in OKC. And yes, my mom have to spent 3 hours driving back to OKC and another 3 hours back to DFW because the wiring wasn't assembled to my braces correctly and it was sticking out. Ever since, he told me to double-check for anything that's wrong with my braces before leaving his office, lol. :D He's a great dentist though. My parents always compliment how he usually do free check-ups and works overtime on weekends without taking any fees or charges, he just does it for free, but he puts lots of effort and time into it. It's a pain in the ass to wait him to get through any customers if there's any customers before us. He spends a lot of time and effort to make sure his job is done perfectly. Unlike other dentists, his goals in maintaining a person teeth is more important than making enough money. That's why he's a great dentist. The reason my parents visit him a lot because they don't think there are any dentists is better than Dr. U. Unlike Dr. U, most of the dentists they been to are terrible. They finish their jobs fast, but the fillings' color are funny like orange, blue, etc. (makes you look like you're chewing gum 24/7) and the fillings always came out in a few months. They always rip my parents off with extra fees and charges to put in new fillings. They're terrible! My mom had went through 3-4 different dentists before she found Dr. U. He was the best! It's hard to find a good dentist, you know?

My uncle complained about Dr. U though. He's too impatient for Dr. U, he prefers a dentist who gets their job done fast even their job isn't done perfectly, it's just have to be fair enough and my uncle is good with that. He prefers that.

Btw, Dr. U always tune into OKC's Classic Hits KOMA which happens to be a good Classic Hits and OKC's AC KMGL which also happens to be a good AC as well. Sometimes, I requested him to tune into KMGL when his office is quiet. :D

In either case, my parents favors Dr. U, but they never cared about the music Dr. U plays at his office or tune over-the-air at his office. My parents do care about American Easy Listening music from the 60s, 70s, and 80s a little, but most of the time they listened to Vietnamese Easy Listening music from the 60s, 70s, and 80s. My parents are in their early 50s now and they came to America in the late 1970s. Dr. U is in his early 60s now. Though, they do talk about how Dr. U likes to blast 92.5 KOMA, Magic 104.1 KMGL, or one of his Beatles records really loud sometimes, but my parents doesn't care about it at all. They don't really care if the music bother them or how they enjoyed the music. They only care about how Dr. U does good jobs taking care of their teeth and my teeth and how he doesn't collect any fees and charges at all.

I doubt my uncle cares about the music either, he listened to Vietnamese Easy Listening music and Classical music only and he's in his early 60s now. He doesn't like the dentist because he takes too long on other customers and him. He prefers someone who finishes their jobs quick, it doesn't have to be perfect for him.

Same thing goes for the restaurants, groceries, and stores:

Since my parents are more conservative in their spending (they don't like to spend a lot of money), they usually prefer something low in costs, as long as the quality is fair enough. They're very serious about the pricing of food and items. They only purchase something when they really needed to.

Though my uncles and aunts are likes to spend money and they usually look for something that's good in quality, but the costs don't bother them much unlike my parents who are very conservative in their spending. They purchase something when they feel like it.

Once again, neither my parents nor my uncles and aunts cared about the music being played at the restaurants, groceries, and stores.

Though interestingly some of the Vietnamese restaurants and groceries here in DFW tuned into our local AC KVIL rather than playing Vietnamese AC music. I can't remember because my parents haven't visit our hometown OKC much and we haven't eat out anywhere in OKC much either, but I believe some of the Vietnamese restaurants and groceries in OKC tuned into their local AC KMGL.
 
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