Yes, I know that a proper and prim citizen looks at the caller ID and if they don't know the caller or the number, they let it ring, or you pick it up for two seconds and put it down.
In this day and age where people swap out phone services every time you turn around and sometimes pick up a new second number for some personal reason, you can't just can't totally ignore the ringing phone: It may be one of your own kids calling!!!!
I have a spouse who grew up under the social standards of a small rural community. It is not polite to let a phone ring. You must answer. Well, at least you must jump up and see what the caller ID says. After 2-1/2 years of serious health issues, I have broken her about 80% of that automatic response. But she had to fall and skin her self up about 6 times and one time fall and tear her rotator cuff in the process. You think I am too verbal with telephone callers. You should have been present the day the orthopedic surgeon tried to order her to have the Oncologist stop the chemotherapy and cancel the surgery to remove the cancer mass because it was more important that he fix the little tear in her muscles of the shoulder.
This has become something of an obsession with me. Some bureaucrat at the FTC recently tried to convince me that it was my duty (and opportunity) to figure out who was calling me, and take them to court in a tort case and sue for damage relief from phone calls. All I have to do is prove to the court what phone the call came from, and prove who was on that phone at the other end. But in spite of the Do No Call legislation... they don't want to admit that it is their job to make the bad actors behave.
The folks that call and tell you how often homes are broken into and they are going to come to your rescue by installing a FREE GE home alarm system....? G.E. is no longer in the home alarm business, and you can quickly tell that their corporate public relations department is anxious to see somebody drop the "Wiley Coyotee" anvil on the heads of the phone call people.
My current methodolgy is: If I can enough people half-as-pissed-off as I am... we may get something done.
I had to laugh out loud a couple of weeks ago. I tangled with a caller: she read my phone number from her machine and said: "I will fix you. I will put your number in every machine we have." I gritted my teeth over that. Four days later, another call from the same number. The moment I said the first word to interrupt the caller this is what I heard in my ear: "Just shut the f--k up!!!!"
I think the "End of the Earth Event" is now scheduled for a week from Tuesday. I can't wait to share that phone conversation with my reluctant friend at the FTC.