Apples and oranges.
The difference between the two stories (and it is a huge one) is that the soldiers that are in Iraq are fighting a WAR. It is unfortunate that young people die during wars, and it is shocking - but it is not the same sort of shock one gets when they hear that entire class of kids that were doing nothing other than trying to go to get an education on an average day at a college were executed by a psychopathic mental defective that (thanks to a failed system) should have been confined to a rubber room, not living on a college campus.
The next time a war is fought without deaths, it will be the FIRST one.
Sorry for the momentarily extending the hijack there :-\ ...as for Imus, his timing was not the greatest. If he'd made his little now-infamous comment during the Nor'easter it would have barely been a blurb on Page 40 of the paper due to all the flood coverage, if that.