Under certain circumstances, second-adjacents can be at the same site. KDAY was authorized in 1961, before the current FM spacing rules went into effect in 1964, and it's therefore grandfathered under the rules that existed before 1964. Those rules have no spacing restrictions between second- and third-adjacent FMs, so merely being second-adjacent to KCBS-FM and KXOS wouldn't prevent KDAY from moving up to Wilson. (KJLH is a bit more complicated; before 1964, and I'm not 100% certain that the current KJLH Compton license is the same 102.3 license that was KFOX-FM Long Beach pre-1964.)
But there are other rules that come into play here, too: pre-1964 grandfathered short-spacing doesn't apply to "IF spacing," the mandatory minimum spacing between FM stations 10.6/10.8 MHz apart. 93.5+10.8=104.3, so 93.5 has to stay at least 15 km away from KBIG. (102.3-10.8=91.5, so 102.3, if it could move, would have to stay at least 15 km away from KUSC, which is on Mount Harvard, 1 km or so from Wilson.)
There's a real-life example of pre-1964 grandfathering of a co-located second-adjacent: for a while, KMAX 107.1 Arcadia (or KSSE, or whatever it was at the time) operated from Wilson, right next door to KLVE on 107.5. It could do that because 107.1-10.8=96.3, and KXOL isn't located at Wilson.
So KDAY can move to Wilson, then? Not so fast...as David correctly points out, there are other rules that come into play. That pre-1964 grandfathering doesn't apply to co-channel and first-adjacent stations, so KDAY still has to protect 93.5s in Ontario and the AV, which it can't do from Wilson. And there's another factor at play, too: city-of-license coverage. KDAY has to put a certain signal level (70 dBu) over all of Redondo Beach, and Wilson is too far away to do that. (And you can't change KDAY's city of license, since KDAY is the only station licensed to Redondo.)
KMAX from Wilson was able to meet all those criteria, being fully spaced to 107.1s in Ventura and Fallbrook and fully covering its city of license, Arcadia, within sight of Wilson. But it had another problem: as a class A station operating from an extremely high antenna height, it had to derate its power so far (I want to say it was something like 90 watts from Wilson to equal the class A standard of 6 kW/100 meters) that it had almost no building penetration down below. Even the non-grandfathered Bs from Wilson (101.9, for instance, with 4800 watts, or 100.3 with 5.4 kW) have trouble getting enough "oomph" to penetrate buildings down in the basin at times.
So the short answer is: no, KDAY or KJLH can't move up to Wilson.