It was Friday, December 9, 1988.
I was looking for a part-time job and called Jay Miller the Program Director at WQYK. We had never met, I'd never sent him a T&R... he said he knew of my work at WPLP and WFLA and that was good enough for him. That night at midnight, I was working for Infinity Broadcasting and standing in front of the mic at 99.5 WQYK.
Jay was the kind of boss you'd always want. He'd smack you on the back of the head when you needed it, and he wasn't afraid to pat you on the back when you deserved it.
His aircheck sessions (yeah, he actually too the time to do them!) were fair, constructive and instructional... and I always left motivated.
When Infinity promoted him to GM, he named Tom Rivers as PD and between the two of them, they built an amazing machine... both on, and especially off the air. Jay and Tom (along with Jay Roberts) created the "Discover Today's Country Music" concept for WQYK at exactly the right time. Garth, Clint, Reba, George Strait were cranking out the hits and QYK as right there welcoming new listeners to country music at the time that pop music was changing and pushing away older listeners.
During the early 90's, WQYK went from being an also ran in the ratings to a market leader and a respected force in Nashville... both positions they still hold today.
He got out of the business at the right time and was still young enough to enjoy everything that he had worked so hard for.
And yeah you're right Braden... reading of Jay's passing does suck.