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This board is NOT to be used to attack other users, no matter how much you disagree with them, no matter how "wrong" you may think they are. This board is to professionally discuss BOSTON RADIO. I step away from the monitor for a few hours to have a life for myself, and I come back to children bickering over who gets to play with the toy next.
Varulven participates alot on the Boston board. He voices his OPINION frequently and cleverly. You do not have to agree with him or like what he has to say, and vice versa. But you do have to be respectful of each others OPINIONS. I challenge you all to find a way to debate without turning to the easy, inflammatory remarks we see so often. Have a discussion, provide references for your facts, and remember that there is always THREE sides to the story: your side, their side, and the TRUTH.
If you are a Boston jock, or former jock, PD, OM, GM...whatever, you are in the public eye and open to scrutiny of the people you play to. Joe knows how to criticize. Criticism in and of itself is NOT A PERSONAL ATTACK. Learn the difference, and then you can be a challenge to his opinions. Challenge each other with wit, not with insults.
Forget about trying to one up each other with insults. Discuss the facts, or discuss your respective opinions. Make it INTELLIGENT. Show us American's aren't dumbed down to simply hurl insults all while hiding behind screen names.
Many of you don't like Joe, and you have your reasons. But Joe has been a part of Boston radio in SOME FORM. You cannot discredit him because he doesn't have "on air" experience. He may not write for Rolling Stone, or Radio and Records, but he stilll writes, and he still is an American with the right to have an opinion. He is a listener too. And listeners have their opinions about "talent". Take it with a grain of salt. Consider it, or don't. Why is it so important to stop one person from discussing their passion? Just because they don't fit your mold? Because they have a differing point of view? That's not America.
We value EVERYONE's participation, however the unprofessionalism that we have seen over the last day or so has got to stop. I don't like banning people because I think you all CAN contribute in a professional manner. I think EVERYONE's opinion is valuable. Sometimes people are not very well informed and their opinion shows that (sometimes we all have an ill informed opinion)...but that doesn't give anyone the right to be beligerant. Be thoughtful in how you respond to someone who "may not have all the facts". Treat them the way you would expect to be treated if the shoe were on the other foot! Do you really like to be called names?
You will catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. Kill them with niceness...
Stop trying to discredit each other. I believe there is something to learn from EVERYONE. No one "knows it all". All the true GREATS will tell you that. So let's get off our high horses, and remember that everyone's blood is red, or brown or whatever color our blood is.
Consider what you are about to write...will it contribute to the discussion, or is it a post that is intended to infuriate each other. If all you want to do is be inflammatory, and "get the other guy", I politely ask that you move on. We are building a community of true broadcasters and enthusiasts who can come here and have a polite discussion, an exchange of thoughts. You may not agree, but that doesn't necessarily mean you are right either, and it most certainly doesn't give you the right to attack.
Let's move on. Everyone was getting along nicely until a day or so ago. And there are only a few at that are disruptive. We will continue to monitor these posters who are not contributing anything but only posting to incite more attacks. I assure more bans will be placed if it continues. Please don't come back with the "he started it" posts...we are all to grown up for that. Just MOVE ON...and get over it. Almost everone is a little to blame (meaning those that have participated in those threads). The moderation could be a little tighter too. And we will work on that, but hopefully it won't be necessary and the discussion will be a friendly one.
I believe that we may be able to get past this bump and continue to discuss Boston Radio in a civil manner. We do appreciate everyone's participation. Let's keep it nice and polite, and professional!
Managing Board Editor
Varulven participates alot on the Boston board. He voices his OPINION frequently and cleverly. You do not have to agree with him or like what he has to say, and vice versa. But you do have to be respectful of each others OPINIONS. I challenge you all to find a way to debate without turning to the easy, inflammatory remarks we see so often. Have a discussion, provide references for your facts, and remember that there is always THREE sides to the story: your side, their side, and the TRUTH.
If you are a Boston jock, or former jock, PD, OM, GM...whatever, you are in the public eye and open to scrutiny of the people you play to. Joe knows how to criticize. Criticism in and of itself is NOT A PERSONAL ATTACK. Learn the difference, and then you can be a challenge to his opinions. Challenge each other with wit, not with insults.
Forget about trying to one up each other with insults. Discuss the facts, or discuss your respective opinions. Make it INTELLIGENT. Show us American's aren't dumbed down to simply hurl insults all while hiding behind screen names.
Many of you don't like Joe, and you have your reasons. But Joe has been a part of Boston radio in SOME FORM. You cannot discredit him because he doesn't have "on air" experience. He may not write for Rolling Stone, or Radio and Records, but he stilll writes, and he still is an American with the right to have an opinion. He is a listener too. And listeners have their opinions about "talent". Take it with a grain of salt. Consider it, or don't. Why is it so important to stop one person from discussing their passion? Just because they don't fit your mold? Because they have a differing point of view? That's not America.
We value EVERYONE's participation, however the unprofessionalism that we have seen over the last day or so has got to stop. I don't like banning people because I think you all CAN contribute in a professional manner. I think EVERYONE's opinion is valuable. Sometimes people are not very well informed and their opinion shows that (sometimes we all have an ill informed opinion)...but that doesn't give anyone the right to be beligerant. Be thoughtful in how you respond to someone who "may not have all the facts". Treat them the way you would expect to be treated if the shoe were on the other foot! Do you really like to be called names?
You will catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. Kill them with niceness...
Stop trying to discredit each other. I believe there is something to learn from EVERYONE. No one "knows it all". All the true GREATS will tell you that. So let's get off our high horses, and remember that everyone's blood is red, or brown or whatever color our blood is.
Consider what you are about to write...will it contribute to the discussion, or is it a post that is intended to infuriate each other. If all you want to do is be inflammatory, and "get the other guy", I politely ask that you move on. We are building a community of true broadcasters and enthusiasts who can come here and have a polite discussion, an exchange of thoughts. You may not agree, but that doesn't necessarily mean you are right either, and it most certainly doesn't give you the right to attack.
Let's move on. Everyone was getting along nicely until a day or so ago. And there are only a few at that are disruptive. We will continue to monitor these posters who are not contributing anything but only posting to incite more attacks. I assure more bans will be placed if it continues. Please don't come back with the "he started it" posts...we are all to grown up for that. Just MOVE ON...and get over it. Almost everone is a little to blame (meaning those that have participated in those threads). The moderation could be a little tighter too. And we will work on that, but hopefully it won't be necessary and the discussion will be a friendly one.
I believe that we may be able to get past this bump and continue to discuss Boston Radio in a civil manner. We do appreciate everyone's participation. Let's keep it nice and polite, and professional!
Managing Board Editor