This has always been an interesting and perplexing issue for me. In my mind the Government should not try to regulate the moral standards of the nation. That, in my mind is the responsibility of the citizens to determine. On the topic of gay marriage, I say the government has no horse in this race and has no business being involved but I suppose we have been taken over by legalese to the point the government feels it needs to get involved. I think moral issues rest solely on the individual, not the government. Thus, more of a free for all. The breaking point is when two parties are opposed (think she says no and he says yes).
The other side of my brain hears those who are trying to rear their children by their preferred code of standards feeling they need to call in the big dogs (government) to help them in the battle. They simply want a more family friendly environment on the over the air offerings. I understand this and respect this as well.
As you can see, I lean toward both sides and they are night and day. I am not the one with the solution but I am in radio.
I tend to find broadcasters that are responsible tend to err on the side of being as acceptable to the biggest group in their service area as possible. I find that the 'risk takers' on this tend to be in larger markets where there are more over the air choices. That seems to be pretty logical. In every event the stations coming closer to that proverbial blue line are doing so very gingerly. I realize the mentality too. If you can get away with a 6 on a scale of 1 to 10, you try for 7. It's just the nature of the creative mind. We hear about some shows that eventually make the hurdle by jumping a couple of points too fast and end up going over the top, bringing the wrath of the listeners and community down on them. But, should the community not figure out what is okay, not the FCC?
I have a buddy of mine that listens to satellite radio. He uses words that cannot be uttered over the air and his choice for satellite radio listening include some choice words. He turns the satellite radio off when his children are around because he doesn't want his kids to hear it. As he puts it, brains have to develop and grow before getting to the point of handling all the perplexities of the adult mind and their brains need to be protected or kept innocent, not imploding with so much that their brains cannot rationalize and reason. I thought that was an interesting take.
So, what is a solution? No regulation and censor chips on over the air broadcasts so each household can make their decision? Would that lead to subdivisions and communities of like minded folks eventually? Maybe, maybe not. After all, we still have dry communities and dry counties where you cannot buy a beer in a convenience store. Do non-drinkers flock to such communities? I never looked into that. If you're buying a house is that a consideration? What I'm getting at is we already have tons of censorship all over and language usage is but one.
An interesting take limited broadcast spectrum. In essence it is true but I think of it much like land. You section a plot of land, selling lots. You have a limited number of lots. Typically there is a regulating agency that tells you what you can do and cannot do with the lot you buy.
Last, the USA is one of the few where radio is not in the hands of government. Sure there are pirates all over the world and many countries that were government only allow some very limited and localized broadcasting but taking in the international situation, we have it pretty good...not the best but certainly one of the best situations for those passionate about over the air broadcasting.