Radio_head nailed it. YOU lead, whether they get it or not.
Respect must still be shown if possible while following your own lead.
Do what you do best, and can do best in your situation.
Eventually someone who recognizes this will reward you, or
you will leave in hopes in finding recognition for your talent.
I am reminded of 1987, when a supervisor said, "Don't think! Just do what I tell you to do!"
This was a galvanizing moment.
In a second, I thought, "gosh, I can just as easy find someone who is looking for someone who will think."
In this moment, I became "sucessful".