THe lesson!
StickyIcky said:
Yeah, but I'm rad enough to start a thread about nothing and get over 2200 views and plenty of replies. Imagine if I was actually talking to listeners about something more exciting. Fish in a barrel. But everyone else here has the answers. Me and my 4 years will see anyone who matters soon!
StickyIcky
Yes you did start a thread about nothing, and you got 2200 replies .......from people telling you how dumb you sounded. SO by that logic, based on your audiences response here, yeah if you were actually talking to listeners about something more exciting they will hate you too, espeically a station like 99x, which if i were to sum it up in a word, it would not be "RAD" kid. ANd if you're complaining that "everyone else here has the answers" remember this: You came here looking for answers, it wasnt like people sought you out and tried to crush your dream, you posted asking about how the interviews were going, and then proceeded to state that you were pretty certain that you would get the gig. So you're bummed that you put yourself out there with the assumption that people would say "Yeah bro go for it" and when they hit you back with the harsh reality, then you got defensive like it's THEIR fault?.
Here's the best advice ANYONE will ever give you and I mean this from the heart: Confidence is great you'll need it, but keep it to yourself because you're in a world of people without it, or without the amount of it that you have. IM talking about working professionals in major markets that can be as insecure as high school boys on prom night, why? who the F knows why!. So to them you just come off as an egomanic and dumb, Im not trying to diss Im trying to be as honest with you as I can be. Learn to play your cards close to the vest, that means be on the DL with what you think, especially about yourself!. It's like you have the biggest secret in the world, bigger than the Da vinci code. That secret? " I am the bomb, yo".........dont ever tell anyone the secret, IF it turns out to be true, the world will find out on their own, annd its always more legit when others tell YOU that you're the man, its never legit when You're the one doing the telling. Stay humble no matter what they say about you be it good, or be it bad, that is the key. What are my qualifications to dispense such advice? 15 years on air in Boston from the time it was market number 7 on down, mornings in a medium market, and currently working on air in New York, market number 1.
On the real though: Four years really is NOT much time BUT I hope it's enough to at least get you an interview, there you can sell yourself. HOWEVER do yourself a favor, dont hit them with the 'Im rad" vibe because that tells them as it's told everyone here "this kid is a pain in the arse and he doesnt even HAVE the gig yet, NEXT". EIther way I hope you'll take this in the spirit in which it is intended, not to flame you but to give you the real deal, tough love I guess.
In closing let me quote the great Pimp turned preacher, the Bishop Don "Magic" Juan
" IT aint easy man, you see me ridin'.... snakeskin to da floor, rings on fingers and watches on arms, you gonna have to go through some THANGS before you get to this static baby,......see ya at the TOP"
Here endeth the lesson, as you were. 8)