I lived in Wilmington, NC back in 1999 and 2000 and loved it. (I'm speaking lifestyle-wise...I'm not IN Radio). Beaches were great from Wrightsville Beach to Carolina Beach to Kure Beach just south of there.
It is (or was) very much a touristy and college town with UNC-Wilmington right there and, for a short time, UNC-Wilmington baseball became a farm team for the Boston Red Sox (which was great considering I am from New England) but I never made a game there before I left.
If you dont mind a hurricane or two, the weather is almost always beautiful (for me, it was ;D ). There were three hurricanes while I was there in '99 including the big one (Floyd) which flooded out alot of the small central-NC towns after coming up the coast, hitting Wilmington, and moving inland. And either Hurricane Irene or David hit the Outer Banks twice....hit it, went out into the ocean, stalled, then moved back and hit land again. But, other than THAT, it was beautiful.
I travelled to Fayette-Nam (sorry, Fayetteville) weekly and it was always interesting to hear the noise (as in...guns...target practice) coming from Fort Bragg. Or taking the shortcut through the base up in Jacksonville and seeing soldiers walking/running/marching/crawling/practicing along the side of the road as well as army jeeps and TANKS moving along the side of the road or along the dirt practice roads just off the road.
Some observations I made right away back then:
1) everything in NC is 2 hours away from everything else
2) anyone who owns a pickup truck keeps the tail door down even if the truckbed is full of stuff
3) drive along any road and you'll see every farm-type residence has a building (usually an old barn) that is in some state of collapse
4) there is ALWAYS traffic in Wilmington...ALWAYS
As for listening to radio back then in that market, I recall having problems finding a favorite radio station right in the Wilmington market (I would have settled for Top 40 or AC or Oldies...almost anything other than country or rap or hip-hop). I could usually find something when I was in Fayetteville (WQSM/Q-98), Myrtle Beach, even Jacksonville, but not Wilmington. For the most part, I think I probably settled on WGNI most of the time. I know it's what I was listening to the morning I got the heck out of dodge as Hurricane Floyd beared down on us.
Other than that, I enjoyed it there very much. There's a Hooters in Wilmington so it can't be that bad. ;D