Here are two hits. Both have messages, but only one has a message we can warm up to and feel good about.
Beyonce sings "If you really...like it, put a ring on it". This has positive and powerful messages. It's a reminder to women that they are in control of their lifestyles and can set the rules for their lovers. The main rule ... and this is the premier message of the song... is a demand for a true commitment. It is a powerful support for marriage. One of my tenants for a better nation is the need to rebuild the American family. Mom and Dad in a strong marriage with focus on raising the children.
Roth's song is a celebration of immaturity and decadence. It celebrates the wrong-headed idea of college life as being one big party. Then it moves on to treating women as nothing more then disconnected sex objects. He probably thinks he's being helpful by telling his young listeners to wear two condoms instead of one. How about not taking advantage of the girl in the first place? Also, no thought is given to the emotional hardships that often occur after having a one-night stand with somebody you might run into day-in- and day-out on campus. His admonishment to avoid 'doing it' with a girl that's wasted has nothing to do with what is best for either party, but rather as a way to help ensure that one can continue jumping from one party to the next.
In this case, the woman beats the man and that's ok with me.
Beyonce sings "If you really...like it, put a ring on it". This has positive and powerful messages. It's a reminder to women that they are in control of their lifestyles and can set the rules for their lovers. The main rule ... and this is the premier message of the song... is a demand for a true commitment. It is a powerful support for marriage. One of my tenants for a better nation is the need to rebuild the American family. Mom and Dad in a strong marriage with focus on raising the children.
Roth's song is a celebration of immaturity and decadence. It celebrates the wrong-headed idea of college life as being one big party. Then it moves on to treating women as nothing more then disconnected sex objects. He probably thinks he's being helpful by telling his young listeners to wear two condoms instead of one. How about not taking advantage of the girl in the first place? Also, no thought is given to the emotional hardships that often occur after having a one-night stand with somebody you might run into day-in- and day-out on campus. His admonishment to avoid 'doing it' with a girl that's wasted has nothing to do with what is best for either party, but rather as a way to help ensure that one can continue jumping from one party to the next.
In this case, the woman beats the man and that's ok with me.