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Delilah Stalker Gets 3+ Years

Anyone famliar with Delilah knows there are very few shows as canned, as insincere and as disingenuous as hers. She herself has done some stalking type behavior. Although not to a level of criminality, she knows what it's like to be told to stay away, hands off.

I'm not condoning stalking. As others state, most of us in radio (and other professions deal with it) have at least some experience with stalkers. The guy should go to jail. But Delilah is hardly an innocent.
 
Not sure she would have the time to stalk anybody, having a family to look after, but yes, disc jockeys who make a point of singling out a person and engaging in such conduct by various means should also be locked up, especially when their conduct borders on elder abuse when somebody in Delilah's age range is targeted for no reason in particular, but she seems like an easy mark. Attorneys general usually know all of the different departments that handle certain situations and take steps to provide such victims comprehensive information to deal with it.
 
WKomm said:
I'm not condoning stalking. As others state, most of us in radio (and other professions deal with it) have at least some experience with stalkers. The guy should go to jail. But Delilah is hardly an innocent.
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And rape victims were asking for it too, right?
 
AQH - I'm not getting into a rape discussion with you on this board. My comment regarding Ms. Delilah has more to do with her - how do I say this politely - voracious appetite for mingling with many gentlemen, including those who have guested on her show and stated they will never do it again.

I'd like to say so much more but it would interest few. Besides, my knowledge comes from a ways back in time and who knows - she may be pure as the driven snow these days. But I will say that the "show" is beyond canned. She could literally disappear from the planet and it might take a year (or more) before listeners - maybe even affiliates - were aware she was gone. I give her this: she found a way to make heavy cash by literally calling it in.

As for "looking after her family" - the radio version is one thing, the reality off-air is quite another.
 
She still doesn't strike me as the type who gets moved into and stuck in a community known for its lizards, shackups and swinging singles.
 
WKomm said:
AQH - I'm not getting into a rape discussion with you on this board. My comment regarding Ms. Delilah has more to do with her - how do I say this politely - voracious appetite for mingling with many gentlemen, including those who have guested on her show and stated they will never do it again.
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Your insinuation came over loud and clear the first time you made it, and it's just as nauseating and insulting. Your argument is exactly the same as rape victims, saying that they deserved it.

Got news for you; nobody asks or deserves to be stalked.
 
AQH has a personal thing with me because I've clashed with his gigantic ego over time here. Nothing I posted advocates stalking or rape. It's obvious. For you to jump from a discussion about the morality of sexual attack is hard to understand. But, seeing as this board is pretty much your vocation over the years, understandable. It's fun to stir the pot and sign back on several times a day to respond.

Delilah is not innocent. Period. She has openly - how do I say this - tried to get to know gentlemen to the point where they about had to pry her off. More than one label & artist has had this unique experience. I know. I was there.

AQH can turn the above into a discuss about rape, alien probing or the Illuminati. Have at it ...
 
If she has hit on gentlemen to the point of having to be pried off, I don't know; however, I must tell you that while such types are few and far between, as far as I am aware, they are out there; and when I say they are out there, I can think of a situation in which one will not be happy until she ultimately succeeds in destroying relationships, and will then claim that people who dealt with her crap are the reason the relationship ended, because the people should have just ignored her and let her run roughshod over their lives and their neighborhood. In this particular situation she has been run out of one town entirely, and now has business owners giving each other a heads up.

The fact is that when they start getting that out of control the situation will be managed. When they come to your neighborhood and trash it, you can ignore it and be happy in a love nest somewhere.
 
Silkie - when label reps say they will no longer bring their artists by to "meet" a certain radio personality and when the staff tells tales of this particular host pursuing the opposite sex during vacations, promotions, etc. and when one sees this kind of thing with one's own eyes, well ...

This personality reached a point (in show popularity and revenue) where most would rather not tangle with the personality in public so the listeners and AQH can have their own private delusions. It happens all the time. In America, we measure success by scoreboard so anyone making big cash is usually off-limits or at least will have rapid defense in the event anyone says anything about them that is less than glowing.

You'll have to go back through these posts and try to figure out how AQH quickly jumped into a discussion of rape but that might be his particular filter and you'd need a psych degree to figure that out. Most of know that when you sow the wind, you reap the whirlwind. In other words, your fate is often determined by your own actions.
 
Wkomm, while I do not rush to rapid defense of money or the bottom line, I do bear in mind that being wife, professional and mother of natural and adopted children carries its own burdens, which, granted, would not be borne if family or career had been an either/or choice early on.

That said, I would also add that any publicity is good publicity. In addition, record labels are one thing. Those people go away either way, with or without a slice. Deliliah has not made attempt to disrupt your life or single you out to destroy your own relationships, either on her own, or because someone told her to do it, or because she wants to create the illusion in her own delusions that either is the case. She has not taken it to a level of showing up in your neighborhood, claiming dishonestly to live in your neighborhood and denigrating local businesses for the sole purpose of harassing you, thus showing her own smallness and shallowness. I am sure that none of the small businesses in your neighborhood have been so disgusted that they called her "that little insect" while taking her money with a smile, but doing what they could to get her out of their lives. She doesn't keep track of the whereabouts of your family or anyone else you love or care about, by using those very commercials when the weather is better used for a salary purposes when seeking another air position elsewhere.

Finally, in a time when persecution of Christianity, added to the persecution of Judaism, is rampant and out of control, I am hard put to believe that Delilah just uses God to make a dime. To take the position that Christians are supposed to be good people is also wrong, so here's a bit of information: A declaration of faith in Christ is not a declaration that one is anything so hot or special, but more a declaration of one's own frail humanity that is nothing without Him. Hard as it may be at times, it is better to let Him work it out, because He always does, and going up against one who is His may be tantamount to going up against the Almighty Himself.
 
As can be seen, I don't swing through here very often. What an interesting reply.

Delilah has not been a wife in a long time. Maybe she's married now - keeping track of her isn't real important to me - and she adopted kids for her own reasons. I have a good idea what her true motivation was/is but it's so depressing ... why bother?

A lot of your post is difficult to interpret. "Those people go away either way, with or without a slice." ??? I have no clue what that means.

>>Deliliah has not made attempt to disrupt your life or single you out to destroy your own relationships, either on her own, or because someone told her to do it, or because she wants to create the illusion in her own delusions that either is the case. She has not taken it to a level of showing up in your neighborhood, claiming dishonestly to live in your neighborhood and denigrating local businesses for the sole purpose of harassing you, thus showing her own smallness and shallowness. I am sure that none of the small businesses in your neighborhood have been so disgusted that they called her "that little insect" while taking her money with a smile, but doing what they could to get her out of their lives. She doesn't keep track of the whereabouts of your family or anyone else you love or care about, by using those very commercials when the weather is better used for a salary purposes when seeking another air position elsewhere.<<

Silkie? This honestly makes no sense. Of course she doesn't mess w ith me. Or you. She doesn't really know me. Or you. The whole thing about businesses and "little insect" in quotes - what in the world is that about??? The last line about commercials, better weather, keeping track - completely strange.

Your final paragraph makes a little more sense but not much. It seems to say that those who say they are Christians and "God bless you" often can do about anything they please because, after all, they're only human. Very convenient how that works out.

The good news? You can respond if so moved (I'd really like an explanation of some of the more delusional parts of your post) but I'm done. My experience with Delilah was soul-sapping and disappointing - it made me want to shout out her hypocrisy to the world. But no one really cares and I don't really, either. She makes tons of dough, seems to enjoy living in Drama Land and if God sees fit to bless her, so be it ...
 
First of all, I was not referring to Delilah in that post; however, I was responding to your post, directly. If what you have to say is true, then Delilah, at worst is a come on. Delilah does not engage in elder abuse and stalking - either by proxy or personally by threatening to show up, then showing up and driving around, making phone calls and having phone calls made, which is the far worse violation and is in fact felonious. There are a tiny handful of those shallow types out there who do that, not only to important people in their industry, but to anyone they take a notion to violate.

Usually, the conduct I am describing is drug and alcohol related. To see such a type hanging around usually leads to finding out exactly that, especially when you have seen others (not in the business) conduct themselves in exactly the same way, from the arrogance and euphoria to the whole traffic scene. And they are all connected.

Again, at worst Delilah is a flirtatious come on. She takes care of her family, and they do not seem to have too much of a problem with her. She didn't cause you harm. In my case, I happen to have a situation and circumstance that I described above, in which a cocky, arrogant, slutty, impertinent little snip seems to think she is above the law and can engage in that conduct, and then play the victim. When that happens, it is just a matter of time before they are out the door, and no longer have the luxury of that microphone to taunt and take steps to make good on those taunts. Then they have to figure out another way to get their little game out there and traffic flowing.
 
Silkie, I'm still trying to understand your statement "To take the position that Christians are supposed to be good people is also wrong". Whew.

Your position sounds very difficult and I honestly wish you well. As I keep saying, I won't go into detail but Delilah made working anywhere near unpredictable and uncomfortable. She got what she wanted and she is now free to adopt 100 kids or buy a ranch, invest in a restaurant. I also wish her the best but she is absolutely not what she is portrayed as.

Nuff said. Unless you have a closing shot, let's move on ...
 
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