And for those who don't realize it, most of Tom's 'views' are shtick. He found a niche that worked and he stuck with it. I don't agree with most of the things he said regarding women, relationships, money, etc... but mad props to him for finding something that worked and sticking with it. The only thing I don't really approve of personally, is the fact that there are SO many morons out there who actually DO follow the things he says. That's pretty sad, but oh well.
Yeah, promoting things like...
Wearing condoms 100% of the time and not screwing up you life with unplanned pregnancies.
Going to a real college and getting the best education you can.
Realizing your dreams before even thinking of getting married.
That there's no benefit to a man to get married (there isn't).
Not getting into relationships before you're mature enough to handle them.
Protecting yourself from bad marriages and unfair divorce laws with pre-nup's or, better yet, not marrying in the first place.
Avoiding people who will make your life more difficult.
Putting away money and investing conservatively for your future.
Not spending all your money on dinners and gifts for women expecting them to sleep with you.
Not caving in to women's demands.
Taking control of your life and not being a loser.
Having self respect.
Wow, what horrible advice, he can't possibly mean all that! ;D
Tom was an advocate for men. He's the one guy out there who apologetically told things the way they are from a man's perspective. It sounded harsh to the people accustomed to the usual pussified point of view in the media (ie. the Dr. Phil and Oprah crowd and the God crowd) but to those of us living the real world, it was damn good advice.
He'll be missed, but he'll be back.