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rbrucecarter5
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Please keep the following in mind when responding to someone or a comment/reply you disagree with:
Remember: there is no need to get dirty or insulting on a personal level no matter how much you may dislike each other, and no matter how "wrong" the other person is.
Remember: everyone is coming to the table with different experiences that are their point of reference for why they believe what they do. That does not make them less of a human than anyone else for not believing or agreeing with you.
Remember: rarely is someone's opinion or point of view changed by reading another's opinion on a message board. So don't expect to. Some people like snow, others like sun. Arguing that one is better than the other will not change anyone's opinion. Expect that you can share your own opinion and debate with other's about their's in a civil manner. Sometimes you will be right, sometimes you won't. The new paradigm on the Internet is not to win, but to share.
Remember: that statistics and studies are also often wrong, or at least varied in accuracy. Statistics can sometimes be construed to support either side of an argument. Sometimes studies don't account for "something" that changes the outcome. For example: Asbestos used to be deemed safe until it was discovered not safe (I think they forgot to ask, "safe for what?"). And scientists thought the world was flat, until is was discovered to be round. The same can be thought for anything and everything we know and believe to be true today, right here, right now.
Remember: equality is about giving each other the same respect. If you truly believe in equality, you will adhere to this. Being disrespectful shows you believe the other is inferior and less equal than you.
Please refrain from ad hominem remarks. What is "ad hominem"? One definition is: "attacking an opponent's motives or character rather than the policy or position they maintain". Also see this Wikipedia post. Also refrain from name calling, both blatant and subtle. It really is not that difficult when you remember the Golden Rule of treating others the way you want to be treated.
Remember: there is no need to get dirty or insulting on a personal level no matter how much you may dislike each other, and no matter how "wrong" the other person is.
Remember: everyone is coming to the table with different experiences that are their point of reference for why they believe what they do. That does not make them less of a human than anyone else for not believing or agreeing with you.
Remember: rarely is someone's opinion or point of view changed by reading another's opinion on a message board. So don't expect to. Some people like snow, others like sun. Arguing that one is better than the other will not change anyone's opinion. Expect that you can share your own opinion and debate with other's about their's in a civil manner. Sometimes you will be right, sometimes you won't. The new paradigm on the Internet is not to win, but to share.
Remember: that statistics and studies are also often wrong, or at least varied in accuracy. Statistics can sometimes be construed to support either side of an argument. Sometimes studies don't account for "something" that changes the outcome. For example: Asbestos used to be deemed safe until it was discovered not safe (I think they forgot to ask, "safe for what?"). And scientists thought the world was flat, until is was discovered to be round. The same can be thought for anything and everything we know and believe to be true today, right here, right now.
Remember: equality is about giving each other the same respect. If you truly believe in equality, you will adhere to this. Being disrespectful shows you believe the other is inferior and less equal than you.
Please refrain from ad hominem remarks. What is "ad hominem"? One definition is: "attacking an opponent's motives or character rather than the policy or position they maintain". Also see this Wikipedia post. Also refrain from name calling, both blatant and subtle. It really is not that difficult when you remember the Golden Rule of treating others the way you want to be treated.