The issue is that we don't take numbers into consideration, we always get anecdotal. "My five friends...". That goes for members of the "open the world" crowd and "we're all gonna die" crowd. My questions are: How many vaccinated? How many infected (vaccinated and unvaccinated)? How many hospitalizations (vaccinated and unvaccinated)? I don't want to hear how someone's "sister's husband's aunt's neighbor..." I care, but that doesn't dictate my deductions in a matter like the pandemic.
One of my biggest enjoyments is Hockey games. My last NHL game live was December 23, 2019. To me, the numbers are just too high to chance it. If I'm going to a crowded place, I prefer it to be for logical need. I love concerts! My last one was Foo Fighters at Fenway Park, when Dave's leg was broken. I've seen so many acts live, I can't pick a favorite. The two that usually stand out are AC/DC and Elivs Costello (for different reasons). AC/DC was the experience of getting free tickets hours before the show, having to speed from New Hampshire to Guillete Stadium, getting to my seat, sitting down, then the lights going out and AC/DC coming out. That was a great show too. Elvis Costello opened for The Police that night, and it was me just realizing how many of his songs I actually like. Plus I took my wife to the concert, and it was more relaxing than my usual hard rock shows that I attend.
As much as I love going, I just think it isn't worth it. So, I follow the data.
Just because I want to share my experience with COVID, I will. But this is an anecdote, and shouldn't be swaying someone's observations. I had COVID in January of 2021, no vaccine available at the time. Felt like my ribs became cynder blocks. I infected my wife and one of my kids. My wife nearly went to the hospital, while I sneaked out of my house at 3:00am to walk the neighborhood for exercise when I had near 0% chance of being near anyone else. My "crime" was stopping at a gas station and buying Power Aides for my kids. It took one guy stocking Coke (maskless) and coughing to get me sick. I was there for about a minute. It was the only place I went that week. I got vaccinated in March and April (second shot on Easter Sunday), then received the booster in November. I'm now just getting over my second infection of COVID. This time, my wife, kid and I all developed symptoms on the same day. The other kid who didn't catch COVID last year, is now positive yet asymptomatic. Our crime this time was being around our niece, who came over for our kid's birthday a couple weeks ago.
Between both times having COVID, I watched my whole extended family (parents, brother, aunts, uncles, and cousins) have it. I watched my brother nearly die from it. As I write this, my doctor has me monitoring my blood pressure, as it's dangerously high from COVID. Nothing I can do at the moment.
Again, that's just an anecdote. So, follow the numbers and see what makes sense. Is it worth it to have a concert? I don't think so. Then again, I think it's foolish to attend an NFL game. To me these are all unnecessary creature comforts. Just keep monitoring the numbers.